Ah, you guys got it lucky, me on the other hand...the first two were no problem to get a divorce from, but the third, gave me absolute hell and beyond! (and no children involved)
I guess that's why I've shied away from marriage, I don't want to go through what I went through with number 3.
It's been 12 years since the nasty divorce, but it has left a wound in me that will never heal. Trust me, it was soooo bad, that it just pisses me off everytime I think about it...
There were many things we fought over like how much alimony I was going to get and for how long.
But the worst (and I'll never forget it) was when he accused me of faking my back problems even though he knew it was true! He even made me go to a doctor who tried to prove me wrong, but couldn't.
There were other things too, but I don't want to go into it.
It was just ugly- there is no other word for it.