Aye blackjohn...back to topic...
(puts the fans down)
Ladies are as varied as gents, and each of us has our own thoughts on what we look for, and find to be attractive qualities. For me, a good sense of humor, sharp wit and a pang for a little romance is a plus. What I find physically attractive varies, but it starts with the face (especially eyes and smile) first, then the way he carries himself. It all goes downhill from there (slightly gutterish).