Sorry to hear that, Diego.
I just got done on the phone with my husband. It appears that he will be losing his job within about two weeks. We're in an amazing amount of debt, and have a second mortgage on our house.
The marriage isn't that particularly stellar anyhow. My husband, in general, doesn't care much for me. I can only assume he stays with me because of our children. I basically ignored his recent affair, and even had to cover for him when his father called wondering why he wasn't at work. He didn't know that I knew, and I haven't had any real reason to tell him I did.
My father, likewise, is in a precarious situation with his work - mostly due to some sort of memory loss - yet undiagnosed. My mother was hoping not to have to work much longer, as her degenerative heart disease is making working full days harder and harder, and she may not enjoy this quality of life much longer.
My husband does not want me to work full time, or to go to school, as long as our children are at home. So the only thing that I could do to better our financial situation, I'm not allowed to do.
My greatest solace is in my church. I've been very active in a Lutheran church lately. My mother, who raised me Catholic, is terribly disappointed in me, and feels I'm making a terrible mistake.
As always, I feel ****ing lovely. Pardon my language. (edited by humble poster)