Fancy me thinks ya know that kinda fun now! ye just walks past it without giv'n it a chance? Eh? ya knows we all have such high expectations to our lifes goal what it be and who it may involve is really not our decision. It's much more important than our ability to choose. Fact is we are so quick to protect ourselves from others (because of all the shyte which were thrown into our personal fans bounced off the walls and n'er missed any) we simply shuts down our willingness to try and look fer the good in our aquaintences and see the all to easy indentifiable dislikes we recognize from that which we "think" we need no more of. I liken to seek the goodness in all, the beauty in all, the kindness which gives that aura of "a human lives in here". Seek not for when it 'appens! it's cause you were just being you. Also I does forgets people are living once they lie to me! My father told me this a long time ago and you can make book on it's truth. "N'er trust a man who doesn't perspire" ya know like politicians! lol