Well after reading the posts so far, I think I've got it made!
I met Boats when he joined the pirate group I belonged to at the time. I was still married to a guy who could have cared less about me. So after 13 years with the twit, I ended it. However it was a very ugly, ugly, messy divorce. He threw in that I was even faking my back problems even though he knew I wasn't. He had his lawyer even send me to be tested to see if I was capable of working a regular job---I deliberately made the test to show that I was dumb as a rock...he even had his lawyer send me to a joke of a doctor to try and retract my back situation--the doctor lied by the way for the benefit of my ex.
Anyway, I knew what I wanted in a guy and surprisingly Boats fit the bill and I fit his. I accept him with all his quirks and strange ways he does things, and he accepts mine.Though I admit some of the things he does is really kind of wacky...don't ask. We don't fight (besides it solves nothing) and we talk about our feelings about a subject and we help each other out. When it comes to computer stuff, he's the tech and knows the system, I'm the one that knows how to operate buttons and such at sites. So it works out well. We share common interests and interests that differ from each other.
We laugh a lot, enjoy each other's company and we've been together for 13 years....the best 13 years I've ever had with someone.
I know for an absolute fact, there's not another guy out there that would treat me with the respect and love that Boats has given me.
We trust each other impeccably and he knows when I go to visit our friend Bob, we aren't having sex, we just talk and watch movies and such. I trust him and I know he wouldn't give me up for another woman. Now that's true trust between two people.
We fit well together and we're happy and that's what really counts!