Since we're cousins, I have to agree with Robbie and add, don't stand around with yer thumb up yer arse while everyone else is breaking their backs setting up, breaking down, or attending to any other kind of work required... pull yer thumb out and lend a hand... and don't be afraid to ASK if you aren't sure what to do... no one appreciates people standing around watching them do all the hard stuff on their own... many hands make for light work and there are no "captains" when it comes to the dirty work.