I have no problem talkin' ta' the Chaplin theyre some of the nicest people to talk to about your problems, and they rarely drag religon into the mix. I'm in the single didgets now waiting to get home. So as for advice all I'm really going to get out here is just wait till you get home and see what happens. But, I think my biggest problem is that she wont talk and I have no idea how to get her to start. I was kind of wishing ther was some one out ther who has been on her side of the coin that could help me not blow it and fix things up when i get there. This has got to be the longest part of the deployment, even when things arn't on the fritz.