Pirate single's bar

[Diego Santana de la Vega]

Thanks fer the drynke Tortuga Wench! Grammercy. Normally I don't come into the singles bar because it doesn't have a dart board so that's why I pretty much hang downstairs at the pub. Been here almost a year and still can't find a decent match down there niether. Cricket 301 501 take yer pick shyte bring on yer mates and we can all play 401. no matters might as well cover what it be I was going too! Fact is, being single only hurts on holidays.....

[Tempest Fitzgerald]

I echo Diego's confession, in so much as this is a "singles" establishment and I am far from that for a span of years. That being said, I will impart this bit of experience.

Most folk seem to spend a great amount of time and energy looking for someone to spend time with. I used to when I was younger, I will admit. None the less, I have found that that kind of quest usually is of little worth or result. It was when I had become very indifferent to the idea and had better things to concentrate on that my path crossed my husband's. ( I did not even have an intrest in dating, at the time.)

We have now been together near eight years, nearing three of those in the institution of marriage. It is when the search stops that it happens. What will be, will be...

[TortugaWench]

It is when the search stops that it happens. What will be, will be...

Couldn't agree with you more!

[Sheila]

been single about 7 months now, big change for me. I was one of those who always wanted a man around. Now I am going for quality over Quantity.

[privateer]

been single about 7 months now, big change for me. I was one of those who always wanted a man around. Now I am going for quality over Quantity.

yes but quantity has a quality all it's own.

sorry old joke.

I do agree with Diego thou........ there are times and sights that it does sting being alone.

just don't make the mistake of marrying the first one that you come across that catches your heart . wait three years......... then tie them up!

ah well the tides riseing..... time ta shove off again... fair winds to all. and my you find your heart AND minds desire.

[Bloody_Mary_Bonney]

Mary wanders in and looks around. "just here to vist havent had to come back for a while.... still dont ever want to hang my hat near anything that say single, i'm just to happy right now"

[Charity]

Let's give it another name them, we're the happy women having fun!

[lady snow]

how aboput the 'pyrate party place'?

[Sheila]

sounds good to me!!

[Captain Annie Finlay]

Hi. Cap'n Annie here. :sits down at bar and orders a round of Guinness: Still as single as ever, but over the summer I had meself one of those--whatcha call 'em?--epiphanies, that's it. The reason I've been single for so bloody long is because I've been 'lookin fer love in all the wrong places,' so ta speak. An' by wrong places, I mean the wrong half o' the population. Truth is, I'm gay. Have been fer a long time, actually, but jest didn't realize it 'til recently.

Anyway, now that I've had this epiphany, I've been much happier, and am finally startin' ta feel like the real me (well, at least when I'm around the people who know) and, with any luck, now that I've figured out where I should be lookin', me single days will soon be comin' to an end.

Whew...feels so good ta finally get that off me chest. Lassies, the next round's on me

[Corsair]

Single pirate here. The wench of 5 years left me 6 months ago for her boss! You here the stories, but I actually had to RETURN the 5k engagement ring, luckily the store did NOT ask for explanantion (as if they couldn' figure it out) Not a fun time.

[Charity]

I am so sorry Corsair!

That is no fun to have to go through, i hope you will be able to continue living without too much pain soon.

All the best to you!

I'm still single too, ofcourse having been in the house a lot doesn't help and when i dó meet someone he's married, i always run into married people..bummer

Oh well..single means i can have Barbossa pics on the wall

[pyratbabe]

Ahhh...single-hood-ness. The joys, the tribulations. I've been in the single boat since May, and should probably have climbed aboard it sooner. Nothin' like having a man who's not being a boyfriend, not being at faire, and yet there enough to keep me from bein' anywhere else.

So, currently, I have a "freind with benefits" that I see every few weeks. Probably shouldn't be foolin' with him at all as we have a long history...but, well, being a Taurus, I tend to do what I want and damn the consequences. I'm keepin' my eyes open for a fine pirate lad, howe'er. If ye be knowin' of any, send 'em over to my port and I'll have a look see.

Ya know ladies, I once got a chain mail that involved packaging up the man you had and sending him to the last girl on the list. After two weeks you were supposed to have a whole pile of men to choose from...but we all know chain letters don't work. Funny, though, tempting. Tee-hee.

[First mate Jeramiah]

Aye to be single, it can be lonely if ye let it, it can be exciting if ye let it. It seems to me you can really make what you wish with a situation, unless it is forced upon ye like that of a break up and for them lad and lasses i do feel for ye for i know the pain. N'er forget though there be plenty o fish in the sea, that is if yer one fer fishin.

Looks like i can buy this round, Cheers to ye all!!

[Christine]

I also have a "friend with benefits" situation as well. A long time guyfriend of mine. Eh, it works for me and it's fun. I can still flirt and stuff like that, as does he. Marriage would definitely ruin things, so as they say, if it's not broke, don't fix it!

[Jonathan Hawks]

Now, I thought this be the Pirates Single Bar. I was hopin that meant single malt scotch. But me dreams were just shattered. SIGH!!!

[pyratbabe]

Now, I thought this be the Pirates Single Bar. I was hopin that meant single malt scotch. But me dreams were just shattered. SIGH!!!

Ah, Jonathan, we do know that you do love to be surrounded by single women...AND we've got Scotch, too!

[Jonathan Hawks]

(Stands up tall and dusts off his boots and pants with his hat). Ahen..... well now. I reckon ya be right on that. I loves the way ya think lass. I'fn ya allow me, I be makin me way o'r ta the lot a ya fer some surrounden. Ana by the way, let me open that bottle fer ya. Life be good I says!!!

[Rumba Rue]

Well let me tell ye ladies, I've been findin' out there be more than one man here at the Pub who t'was actin' like they t'was single, but come ta find out, they be MARRIED!

[Christine]

And they act the same way in the real world too. Makes me think they not be happy being married. It seems they enjoy flirting and being single instead.

[Rumba Rue]

I tend ta agree with ye Christine. Usually if'n a man be playin' while bein' married signals a problem with the marriage. No doubt about it.

[pyratbabe]

I absolutely agree Rumba Rue & Christine, married is married and if they don't want to be that way, we live in a modern society...divorce is allowed.

Foolish mortals.

[Duchess]

Hmmm, I find it interesting that several of the people who are now decrying people who are married but still flirtatious are the exact same people who were expounding the right to be a flirt and a "player" in nonserious fashion on another thread.

[Rumba Rue]

In reality, I have a strict rule, if the guy is married it's hands off.

I may make some wise cracks and even bat an eyelash or two, but that's as far as it's going to go. :)

I've already embarrassed one poor guy here at the Pub, who went running the other direction...to his girlfriend.

There's a few guys here that even though I know they are attached at the hip with another though not married, who've gone out of their way to make me feel....well yummy. (Thanks Diego)

It takes a special gal to know it's just a kiss.....

[Christine]

Hmmm, I find it interesting that several of the people who are now decrying people who are married but still flirtatious are the exact same people who were expounding the right to be a flirt and a "player" in nonserious fashion on another thread.

*rolls eyes* oh, please! Everybody flirts, but if someone is married nothing is going to happen beyond just flirting.