It's one thing to wish what you're ideal partner's qualities should be, but what about the reality?
One of the great things about doing Ren-fairs/pirate events is that the larger person is readily accepted. That's something personally I appreciate, even though I've lost a whole lot of weight. I'll never be thin, but not overly huge either.
I love a man with some meat on his bones, but not overly obese as I find skinny just nothing there to hold onto.
So I'm really interested in what each of you really like size wise in the opposite sex.