Took Silkie's advice.
Slept on it.
Still tired of the crap, but I have always believed in fighting for what's mine and what I believe is right...(okay I make a lousy pirate but a great privateer)
So William hopefully you will get your wish for the perfect hat in 8-9 years from now... and thank you William, Silkie, Briar, Syren, Red Cat, Ransom, and of course Cheeky...
Oh, and Cheeks, a little more gently the next time you try pounding common sense into me over the phone! And I hope you settle whatever the problem is that you are having with that other person as well. If you handle them the way you do me, they'll come around...give it time.