well a t shirt, big poster or shaped pillow signed by a bunch of pirates would be cool and maybe an honorary title?
Lady B can you find out more? Theres a lot of pirate stuff for kids. We could each add a trinket to a chest for him..maybe send him the empty chest and then one person a week or two people a week send booty. It would give him weeks of trinkets. I'm sure a sorely needed distraction from what is surely a daily struggle