I spent years away from my country and my family, I know the type pf impatience you feel. The others have given all true and heartfelt advice acording to their experiance, well done to them that have shared with a brother. I would only say be yourself, be true to yourself and don't try tobe someone you are not. If she loves you it is YOU, not some hat of tricks to fool her with. Treat her the way you want to be treated, good bad or indifferent, be yourself. I have tried and failed more times then I want to admit, the only time it has worked was when the lady fell in love with me and not the image I try to project.For this I fell in love with her too. The most stacked deck against me has produced the truest love I have ever known. It is more important to learn from love in all it's forms of hurt and pleasure than it is to win. For it will ever be a learning process just pay attention to your mate ,study her as you would your most passionate intrest, in fact make her your most passionate interest. That whish all else revolves around. For the two of you may only have each other when all else might be lost. I don't mean to ramble on, but my redemption in the love of a wonderful lady came at the eleventh hour. Never give up on you and the right one will find you, if she hasn't already. Good luck, please keep us posted....we do care