This is a Spiritual question for me....Selfish vs selflessness..right vs wrong ect.. eeerrr so EYE quit giving thought to the what ifs and decided that for me to be happy, it is better to be present in self acceptance in the moment. I gave up Dogma because it was sapping my happiness away by making me feel I should be some other person than whom Eye am! My life is comprised of Moments connected to moments. I am not a doing..I am a Being so the occupation part of the question seems irrelevant to me as long as I eye Love God and Others
Eye could care less about fame and remembrance. Well ok Eye did get my Moniker at the end of a pirate film, but that was just for boasting and gloating rights...
When I was faced with dieing in a car accident and saw my life flash by in a ultra fast succession of mental pictures , Eye did not have tyme to think about "Things I've yet to do" because I was to busy surviving the violence of tumbling down the freeway right then.
I bet Ole Capt. Bo would ave something to say to the same effect.